The Relationship Coaching Breakthrough Workshop | The Personal Development School
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Whether you work with clients, want to become a coach, or are working on yourself

Recognize, Interrupt, and Replace the Relationship Patterns Holding You or Your Clients Back.

Get instant access to The Relationship Coaching Breakthrough Workshop with Thais Gibson. Watch one Integrated Attachment Theory® tool demonstrated from start to finish, and leave with the worksheet behind it, ready to use with a client, on a friend or family member, or on yourself this week.

“As a mental health professional, I was looking for evidence-based tools that could complement my existing practice, and Thais Gibson’s approach exceeded all expectations. I’ve been able to apply it with my clients immediately.”
Jany L. ★★★★★

What Is The Relationship Coaching Breakthrough Workshop?

The Relationship Coaching Breakthrough Workshop is an 80-minute working session, available the moment you enroll, where you watch one Integrated Attachment Theory® tool applied with real participants, and leave with that tool in your hands.

Because let’s be honest about what happens in most sessions.

Your client understands their pattern. They can describe it clearly.

They know why they shut down, why they chase, why they keep choosing the same relationship dynamic.

And a month later, they’re back in your office describing the exact same loop.

The problem isn’t the client. And it isn’t you.

It’s the level the work is happening at.

Most approaches work with the conscious mind, which processes roughly 40 to 50 bits of information per second. The subconscious processes around 11 million.

So even when a client fully understands why they behave a certain way, the deeper belief driving that behavior can stay exactly where it was.

There’s a layer beneath most training. And it’s a layer neuroplasticity lets you change.

Reaching it doesn’t take another framework to memorize. It takes one practical tool, demonstrated clearly, that you can use with a client right away.

That’s what this workshop gives you:

  • How to locate the specific core wound and attachment pattern underneath a client’s presenting problem, instead of working at the level of the symptom
  • Nervous system and emotional regulation tools that steady a client before deeper work begins
  • The BTEA framework (Beliefs, Thoughts, Emotions, Actions) to trace a trigger back to the belief driving it
  • A full demonstration of autosuggestion and equilibration, recorded live with real participants, so you see a breakthrough tool create a shift in real time. This is the practical centrepiece of the 80-minute session, and takes up about a third of it
  • The worksheet behind the tool, structured so you can run it with your own clients this week

After more than a decade developing Integrated Attachment Theory® and teaching it to therapists, psychologists, counselors, and coaches around the world, Thais has learned something about practitioner training:

Most practitioners don’t need more theory. They need to see exactly how an effective tool is applied in practice.

That’s what this workshop gives you. You’ll see the tool applied from start to finish, understand what Thais is doing at each stage, and leave with the worksheet and process to use in your own practice.

So the next time a client, or someone you know, understands their pattern but remains stuck in it, you’ll know what to do next.

Your $49 purchase also includes 14 days of free access to The Personal Development School.

Come for one practical tool. Leave knowing what to do when insight isn’t enough.

Here’s What You’ll Get In The 80-Minute Workshop

A clear method to locate the root cause beneath any presenting pain point, mapped to a specific attachment style and core wound
Regulation tools that help a client steady their nervous system before deeper work begins
The BTEA framework to trace a trigger back to the belief generating it, and work on it directly
The BTEA Tool Worksheet
BTEA Tool WorksheetMap · Reframe · Rewire · Realign
A 30-minute demonstration of autosuggestion and equilibration, recorded live with real participants
Structure for boundaries, people-pleasing, and conflict so you’re guiding with a map instead of instinct
The full session to keep, so you can pause, rewind, and revisit any step as often as you need

In 80 minutes, you leave with the tool, the worksheet, and a working understanding of how to use both, right away.

You Also Unlock Instant Access to 4 Bonuses

Bonus #1

Lifetime Access to Rewatch

Value: $120

The complete workshop is yours to keep and rewatch at any time. Return to the demonstration as often as you need while you build the tool into your own practice.

The Relationship Coaching Breakthrough Workshop, lifetime access
Bonus #2

The Tool Worksheet

Value: $200

The worksheet used during the demonstration, ready to use with your own clients straight away. This is the structured, systemised version of what you watch Thais do.

The Tool Worksheet
Bonus #3

$749 Off the Integrated Attachment Theory® Certification Program

Watch the workshop and receive $749 off the $3,499 Integrated Attachment Theory® Relationship Coaching Certification, the 12-week, Association for Coaching accredited program built on Thais’s proprietary IAT® framework.

The framework maps every attachment style across six pillars (core wounds, needs, nervous system, boundaries, communication, and behaviors), then goes past profiling into rewiring, with tools built for the subconscious mind rather than insight alone.

Integrated Attachment Theory® Relationship Coaching Certification

Inside the Certification you get:

  • All 12 practitioner-ready tools, each with its own worksheet and step-by-step questions, so you can run them with a client the same week you learn them
  • The full IAT® profile for every attachment style: core wounds, needs, nervous system patterns, communication style, relationship to boundaries, and coping behaviors
  • 30+ hours of training across 69 lessons, with a live class every week across all twelve weeks: the first four taught by the IAT® coaches, then eight weeks of live teaching and supervised practice with Thais and her team
  • Client intake forms, assessments, and the in-depth attachment style quiz, unbranded and ready to use in your practice
  • Business training on building a practice, creating content, and bringing clients to you
  • Lifetime access to every recording and worksheet, plus a private global community of certified practitioners

The workshop gives you one tool from the framework. The Certification gives you all of them.

Bonus #4

14 Days Inside The Personal Development School

Value: $97

Included the moment you enroll. Two full weeks of All-Access Membership: 70+ self-paced courses, weekly live webinars with Thais, guided reprogramming tools, and a private community. Experience the work on your own patterns before you apply it with clients.

14 days free inside The Personal Development School All-Access Membership
Total bonus value
$1,166+
Yours free when you enroll today

How Does The Workshop Work?

In 80 minutes, Thais walks you through the three steps her clients use to change a pattern at the root, and you do each one on yourself.

Step 01

Understand What’s Really Running the Show

Your conscious mind accounts for roughly 3 to 5% of what you believe, think, feel, and do. The subconscious runs the rest. Thais shows you why awareness alone doesn’t create change, how negativity bias and predictive processing keep old patterns alive, and how every attachment style maps to the same six pillars. You leave knowing where the real work has to happen, and why so many clients stall before it.

Step 02

Spot the Subconscious Pattern

Using the BTEA framework (Beliefs, Thoughts, Emotions, Actions), you take a recent stressful moment and work backwards through it: the belief it triggered about yourself, the thoughts and emotions that followed, and the way you reacted. That chain leads straight to the core wound underneath. Most people find the pattern is decades old and runs on autopilot. You’ll learn how to surface it in yourself, and how to recognise it in a client within minutes.

Step 03

Rewire It

Core wounds get installed through repetition and emotion, and they’re rewired the same way. Thais teaches the tool on camera: identify the wound and its opposite, gather 10 specific memories that support the new belief, then record and replay them for 21 days in a relaxed, alpha-wave state. The subconscious speaks in emotion and imagery, not language, which is why this works where affirmations don’t.

The results are measurable. In a study of 903 participants using these tools on their own over 90 days:
8.5 → 2.5Core wound intensity when triggered, on a scale of 1 to 10
½Daily triggers were cut in half
−54%Painful coping mechanisms like clinging, shutting down, or lashing out
From therapists, coaches, and professionals trained in Integrated Attachment Theory®

What Practitioners Are Saying About Thais Gibson’s Work

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Jany L.Mental health professional
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The Personal Development School and IAT™ Relationship Coaching Certification have been transformative for both my personal and professional growth. As a mental health professional, I was looking for evidence-based tools that could complement my existing practice, and Thais Gibson’s approach exceeded all expectations. The attachment theory framework taught in the program provided me with profound insights into relationship patterns that I’ve been able to apply with my clients immediately.

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Rebecca O.
★★★★★

The IAT training equipped me to become financially independent doing something that is aligned with my personality and need for personal development. I am truly grateful for how much you shared and how attentive you were during the training.

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S.R.
★★★★★

I had my first paying customer last week. Halfway through the session he wanted to book his next 12 sessions straight up… I am absolutely loving doing this work with people. And it is absolutely setting me free financially. Never did I imagine I would have such good results so quickly!

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Professor Anderson Parks Jr.
★★★★★

Thank you so much for an amazing learning experience. I have taken and passed the exam and my certificate is proudly displayed!! This was a very well organized and facilitated training program from start to finish. I have benefited greatly, both personally and professionally! I plan to integrate IAT™ into my current Emotional Intelligence courses and am looking forward to this next evolution.

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Philippa B.Realtor
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I also wanted to share how valuable I found the program. I enrolled to strengthen my communication, boundary setting and conflict resolution skills within my real estate practice. Real estate transactions often involve emotionally complex negotiations and significant life transitions, and this training has enhanced my ability to better support clients through those processes. Thank you again for such a comprehensive program. I am grateful for the depth of material provided.

How Will This Workshop Help?

?Already trained in CBT, NLP, EMDR, or a coaching framework?

Most modalities work at the conscious level. This tool works at the subconscious level, where the pattern actually lives. It sits alongside what you already use, and it’s built for the exact moment your current approach hits a ceiling: the client who understands the pattern but can’t change it.

?Not a practitioner yet, but people keep coming to you?

Many of the people who come to Integrated Attachment Theory® training aren’t practicing yet. If you’re the person that friends and colleagues open up to and you’ve felt called to do this professionally, this is a clear, structured starting point.

?Wondering whether you’ll actually be able to use it?

That’s the point of the demonstration and the worksheet. You see the tool applied with a real participant, then you have the structured version in your hands. Most trainings explain the problem thoroughly and stop short of the solution. This session is built the other way around.

Thais Gibson teaching the workshop

No matter who you work with, if you want a session where insight turns into visible change, this workshop gives you a tool built specifically for that.

Meet the Founder of Integrated Attachment Theory®

Hi, I’m Thais Gibson

I’m the founder of Integrated Attachment Theory® and co-founder of The Personal Development School, where this work has reached more than 60,000 students across 145+ countries.

But this work didn’t start in a classroom.

It started with a question I couldn’t stop asking after overcoming a five-year addiction to painkillers: why do we keep repeating painful patterns, even when we understand them?

That question led me into psychology, neuroscience, and attachment theory. I earned an MA in Counselling, a PhD, and 13 certifications spanning NLP, hypnosis, and family systems.

And I found the thread that tied it all together.

It wasn’t willpower. It wasn’t finding the right partner. It was subconscious programming, formed in our earliest experiences, that awareness alone couldn’t reach.

So I developed a way to reach it. Integrated Attachment Theory® became the first framework to rewire subconscious patterns and heal attachment styles at the root.

Since then, my insights, frameworks and teachings have drawn over 70 million views on YouTube, with appearances on Jay Shetty and Mel Robbins.

And as more coaches, therapists, and practitioners saw what these tools made possible in their own work, I built a structured way to pass them on.

That became my practitioner training. And it’s exactly what you’ll get a firsthand look at in this workshop.

Thais Gibson, founder of Integrated Attachment Theory®
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99.7%satisfaction rate
70M+views on YouTube

Most Practitioners Are Working Without a Map.

When clients keep looping, shutting down, or repeating the same relationship dynamics, it’s often a subconscious pattern, and talking it through isn’t always enough to shift it.

Before

Traditional Modalities

  • One modality applied to every client, regardless of their attachment style or core wound
  • Working at the conscious level, where insight rarely converts into behavior
  • Naming the problem, without a structured route to the solution
  • Homework clients never complete
  • Clients could plateau, referrals may slow, and the practice stalls
After the workshop

The Integrated Attachment Theory® Way

  • Tools mapped to the specific attachment style and core wound in front of you
  • Neuroplasticity-based methods that retrain the subconscious pattern at its root
  • A clear structure: identify the pattern, make it conscious, then reprogram it
  • Practitioner-ready tools you can apply with a client immediately
  • A full demonstration, so you see exactly how it works before you use it
  • Clients experience visible change, which is what builds a practice
One workshop. One tool. Everything you need to use it.

What You Get When You Enroll Today

The on-demand workshop and The Personal Development School membership
  • Integrated Attachment Theory® Workshop with Thais Gibson, on demandValue: $297
  • 80 minutes of training, including a 30-minute practical demonstration recorded with real participants
  • Bonus #1: Lifetime Access to RewatchValue: $120
  • Bonus #2: The Tool WorksheetValue: $200
  • Bonus #3: $749 Off the Integrated Attachment Theory® Certification$749 off
  • Bonus #4: 14 Days Inside The Personal Development SchoolValue: $97
  • 7-Day Money-Back GuaranteeIncluded
Total value $1,463
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And Here’s What Members Say About The Personal Development School

Your 14 days inside the membership start the moment you enroll. Here’s what it’s done for the people already inside.

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Kay TeoPDS member
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…I find that the content in PDS is truly life transforming. I’m much calmer and happier now since starting my journey with PDS through Thais’ teachings. Her impressive ability to explain cause and effect is outstanding and helped me work through a lot of trauma and improve my life.

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Liana VibesPDS member
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I’ve been part of PDS for over 3 months. It’s life saving work. Her YouTube information is great — but the actual school is dedicated to individually helping you heal your attachment style towards secureness. I highly recommend it.

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Judy Ann DurhamPDS member
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It’s one month today since I started The Personal Development School and I have really put in the work. I am very pleased with the changes I’ve worked through in this short time… it’s so worth every minute and every penny. Brighter and loving days ahead.

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Cindy LeaPDS member
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One of the most powerful gifts of PDS was understanding the relationship I had with myself and growing to the place of trusting myself. It is a huge hurdle but once over it, it was amazing how everything shifted. Thank you PDS, you are changing lives.

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James H.PDS member
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All the content is helping me understand myself and my emotions so much more than I realized before. I’ve never been taught anything to do with emotions in my 50 years and I’m finally starting to feel like I am a good person and worthy of love. Still a long way to go but I know where I’m going and that makes me so happy.

Your Purchase Is Backed By Our 7-Day Money-Back Guarantee

We want you to feel completely at ease getting started.

We know this workshop will give you something you can use in your work with clients. And we also know that $49 is money you worked for, and it counts.

So here’s how it works:

Get instant access. Watch the workshop whenever suits you. Explore your 14 days inside the membership.

And if you decide it’s not the right fit, contact the Personal Development School team within 7 days of your purchase and we’ll issue a full refund, no questions asked.

Thais has taught her work to more than 60,000 people across 145+ countries, and we’re confident in the value you’ll receive from these 80 minutes.

Frequently Asked Questions

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What exactly am I getting for this price?
An 80-minute workshop with Thais Gibson, built around the 6 Pillars of Integrated Attachment Theory®, available to watch the moment you enroll. That includes a 30-minute practical demonstration recorded with real participants. You also get lifetime access to rewatch, the worksheet for the tool demonstrated, 14 days inside The Personal Development School, and $749 off the Integrated Attachment Theory® Certification.
When do I get access?
Straight away. As soon as your purchase goes through, the workshop unlocks and you can start watching. There’s no date to wait for and no schedule to keep.
How long do I have access?
It’s yours to keep. Watch it as many times as you like, whenever suits you, and come back to the demonstration whenever you want to revisit a step.
Do I need a coaching or clinical background to take this?
No. Roughly three quarters of the people who come to Integrated Attachment Theory® training aren’t practicing yet. If you’re already a paid professional, you’ll see how these tools sit alongside the modality you use now.
I already have a certification (CBT, NLP, EMDR). Why would I need this?
Most modalities work at the conscious level of the mind. Integrated Attachment Theory® works at the subconscious level, using neuroplasticity to retrain the pattern at its root. Recent cohorts have included psychiatrists, psychologists, university professors, and social workers, most arriving with a modality already.
Is this a replacement for therapy?
No. Integrated Attachment Theory® complements therapeutic work rather than substituting for it. Therapy creates the space to process and understand. These tools give you a structured way to change the patterns identified in that process.
Is this the same thing as the Integrated Attachment Theory® Certification?
No. This is a single on-demand workshop where you learn and watch one tool applied. The Certification is a 12-week, Association for Coaching accredited program: 69 lessons, 30+ hours of training, 12+ practitioner tools mapped to each attachment style. This workshop is a starting point, and your purchase includes $749 off the Certification if you go further.
How does the free 14 days of The Personal Development School fit in?
It’s included the moment you enroll. The All-Access Membership is where you apply this work to your own patterns first, which is how most practitioners we train prefer to learn it. Understanding a tool from the inside makes it considerably easier to use with a client.
Can I actually use this with clients right away?
Yes. That’s the point of the demonstration and the worksheet. You see the tool applied with a real participant, then you have the structured version in your hands.
What if I buy and it’s not right for me?
You’re protected by our 7-day money-back guarantee. Contact the Personal Development School team within 7 days of your purchase and we’ll issue a full refund, no questions asked.